No.1388[View All]
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I'm offering unlicensed therapy to you
Now tell me 'bout them problems you gots. I ain't got all day.
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>>1446soaking in it?? gosh... that'd be a lot!
i'm not sure! i don't think so... shall we exchange 'cords?
No.1449
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>>1448sent! mine is the "rasupdoo" one!
No.1450
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>>1449Do you have me on discord?
I loved the letter you sent us btw No.1451
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>>1450not yet, i don't think! peep my email field in this post c;
eeee, i'm glad! it's been a long time since i make letters! it was a lot of fun to get back into it! No.1452
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should i go to atlanta instead of LA?
No.1453
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>>1412>I was speaking from the heart, honestly, in that last thread"Speaking from the heart" doesn't give you license to come out of nowhere and spew nasty insults at someone, especially when you're completely off base as a factual matter. You apparently confused Iara with the other Peruvian poster who was on efchan, and yet even after you were proven to be objectively wrong w.r.t. Iara's BMI, you still refuse to apologize for anything you said. I can only hope that one day you will realize you acted wrongly and give Iara the apology that she deserves.
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>>1453Wait, so the rest of the stuff they said would have been ok if the BMI had been different?
No.1458
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>>1456>Wait, so the rest of the stuff they said would have been ok if the BMI had been different?lol no, of course not. It's just that the BMI claim was definitively proven factually incorrect, strongly suggesting that Kady had confused Iara with someone else. But regardless, the insults in the post were completely unacceptable in any case.
No.1459
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>>1458Just seemed a weird thing to mention!
Like someone saying "You ugly, fat freak!" and then responding "Hey, I'm not fat!"
But anyways, while I don't think all that was appropriate to say to anyone regardless of how I feel about Iara, the site may not be the best place to air personal grievances.
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>>1459hate to be that person but the whole "it's not the place for it" argument doesn't really work when she in fact said it to her first, publicly, on the site in front of everyone
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>>1459> the site may not be the best place to air personal grievances.I wouldn't have spoken on the subject if Kady hadn't tried to justify what she had said by claiming that she was "speaking from the heart" (
>>1412).
No.1462
>>1460Was it THIS site, or was it the other one with nazis? I'm confused.
>>1461Just a suggestion, do what you feel you must.
No.1464
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>>1462It's not like the two sites are totally distinct from each other. They have a common lineage and have a significant overlap of userbase. And Kady brought it up on
this thread by trying to justify what she had said on the other site.
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>>1388>shrink>problemThe cops are getting closer to finding my last therapist. Can you help me?
No.1467
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>>1465Just because you're allowed to say something doesn't mean that you should. People should refrain from saying such hurtful things even if they won't be punished for saying them.
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>>1464>>1461>>1458>>1453How about I put it like this;
Saying I'm speaking from the heart isn't meant to justify the comment. It's just saying that I stand by the comment.
Do I take it back? Nope. Nor do I justify it. I just flat out don't like her.
But would you want me to go on a tangent about why? And Textwall my grivences and get dirty with my words? I thought this ain't the place for that. So the polite way of saying "go fuck yourself, Iara, I said what I said" is to just say "it came from the heart"
Stop saying I'm trying to justify anything. I'm not.
>And Kady brought it up on this thread by trying to justify what she had said on the other site.Iara posted in
MY thread and I responded
POLITLY. How is that
me bringing it up?
>>1466How can I help?
>>1454Welcome ❤️
>>1452Go to LA. It's better
No.1470
>>1465I'm trying to be polite to Iara who posted in
my thread. So I just said "it came from the heart"
Trying to avoid conflict. I said the screencap on ponychan.
No.1472
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>>1471Oh, I'm sorry, did I give the impression I'm a good person?
Let me start over
Hi! My name's Kadence. I'm the
kind one. I say nice things to people and cheer them up and ask about their days.
Am I a good person, though? No. I said I'm a
kind person. Not exactly the same thing.
No.1475
>>1473People fuck up and say dumb things all the time. Beating someone down for their transgressions puts you down on that same level. No, lower because you perpetuate the negativity.
You’re no saint. None of us are, so get out of this thread with your high roading, kid.
No.1480
>>1478You only high road for your own personal vendetta, and you air out the dirty laundry at her expense. Everyone can see that and you’re making worse for yourself.
Besides, for all we know this Lara person could be fictitious just to gaslight her... You know a thing or two about that I bet.
No.1483
>>1482I hold out the belief that people have the innate desire to be good, even when they aren’t in a good place in their life.
>>1479I even hold out the belief that this guy is good.
_________________
People make mistakes and they get over it. We don’t hang onto them, because it’s unhealthy and it’s immature.
No.1484
>>1483I'm not really invested in the history of these two. I have my own personal history with Iara that makes me not like her personally. But I still think the things said in
>>1453 were crossing a line.
I'm not sure how well you know Kady, but her comments in
>>1472 seem to indicate that they are only pretending to be nice to people while holding malicious and cruel views on them. Which is something people should be aware of, if at any moment the veil might be dropped and we get the same kind of verbal lashing.
No.1485
>>1484I would say, that it's probably safer to call yourself an irrepentive jerk and be polite most of the time, than claiming to be the epitome of kindness and lashing out against others.
I dunno.
I wonder what makes people tick or act in certain ways.
I mean
In theory I don't want to be extra vile to people, but what would make me think that I can be nasty at some times? We're only human, I suppose.
No.1486
>>1481>>1480>>1483She's the one who said this stuff just over a month ago, this isn't like something she said years ago or anything, plus she's said she
stands by what she said, which includes the invalidation of Iara and the accusation of a sexual fetish.
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Instead of responding to everyone, how bout I just say this:
I'm kind. No, it's not fake. I can also be mean. No, that's not fake either.
I'm a multi-fauceted human that can show multiple emotions other then just kindness
No.1488
>>1487There's no excuse for being
that mean. And this is coming from someone who does not like the person you directed that cruelty towards.
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>>1488I disagree. I can be cruel and own my own crualty if I see it as worth it.
>>1489Uh, no. I can't lift more then ten pounds and have the build of a gogo girl.
No.1492
I was talking with Kadence on Discord and I am just gonna post my last response here.
I already apologized about any seemingly misunderstanding, but my points still stands:
No matter how much you, Kadence, perceived any offense from my part, the reality is that I didn't mean to offend you the way you felt, at all. I didn't go out of my way to maliciously affect you or make you feel sad.
You, on the other hand, did attack me with the sole intention to hurt my feelings. It is far too different.
As for the whole "kindness" thing... News flash. Anyone can be kind sometimes and spiteful other times. I am exactly the same as well. That doesn't mean I get to call myself "kind"
EVERYBODY is genuinely kind sometimes.
It doesn't mean jackshit.
It seems to me that Kadence only cares about being seen as a nice person, rather than how I might be feeling or how you might have made me feel, Kadence. Specially now that the people on ponyville saw it and some called her out on it.
>>1473>>1475>>1484You guys seem to forget that what she said were lies.
That's the part that offended me the most. She mistook me for someone else entirely.
>>1478>>1480Dude what the fuck. I'm right here.
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>>1492>>1492>It seems to me that Kadence only cares about being seen as a nice person,And herein lies the reason why our talks fell. Lack of wanting to get to know and understand one another.
I don't actualy care about appearing kind. I just am, most of the time. The people on ponyville can gladly know what I said to you and it doesn't affect me.
Yes, I can be a bitch and totally mean sometimes. Especially if I'm intentionally being mean to so.eone for [reasons].
